Emotionally I identify as straight, sexually I am in the grey area and I want to experiment with another guy, but I have absolutely no experience in any of that, what is a good way to help find a partner who will understand my position?
Probably Grindr or some other hook up app, they're less likely to care if you just want a one time thing. I'd hookup and then immediately after be completely turned off by them and the idea of being with one.
2. move to apps and chat rooms.
I myself was actively seeking women for relationships, and men for just sex because growing up "being gay was not ok" but You have years and years and years of internalized homophobia. You've clearly admitted to being sexually attracted to men, but "just sexually". You can't imagine yourself ever being in a relationship with a man right?
I couldn't either! It took about 5 years after my first sexual experience to even start thinking about wanting to be in a relationship with one.
Baby steps. Don't be too focused on "labeling" yourself just yet. You don't have to! Secondly, you aren't going to figure this out overnight. It took me 10 years from to finally accept myself.
I'd suggest starting out slow. Just fool around with a guy. See if you even like it.
Afterwards you may feel gross and self-hating, but the next day are you still thinking about men? Look up internalized homophobia online. I'm not saying your gay, or bi, or maybe you are just curious right now You can go on CL or Grindr and get used by someone just into it for a zipless fuck.
Promise them nothing, tell them you're just experimenting, but make sure condoms are used. Not wanting to blow a dude just makes you straight, not a coward. Don't be that guy, man. You can do this from any of apps, or the good ole CL. I have messed around with plenty of straight guys that just wanted a one time thing, or who would come back for more but only for sexual things.
I promise there are plenty of guys out there that would be willing to do this without anything more. Apps are the easiest, CL I'd say is a little dodgier, Grindr is more about hook ups, Scruff and some of the others may be a little less full on and easier to get a vibe as they have more text.
Maybe even go looking for guys on Tinder if you want to take it a bit slower. If you're near a gay bar or steam house you might enjoy going and checking out the kind of guys that are there and see what does it for you.
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If you have an athletic body, you should have no problem. Heck, I'll volunteer as a tribute even. Getting blown by a gay guy doesn't make you gay. I haven't been with one but I have a few buddies who have. And not sure about CL - seems sketch. Might want to stop identifying as straight there, chief. You sound pretty damned bisexual. The way I see it, I could probably have sex with a guy, but I couldn't be in a relationship with another man.
He could be trying to feel out what his sexuality is. Found the internet!
I identify myself as straight, but I want to experiment with another guy. How do I go about this? Posted by 6 years ago.
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Touch him. Taste him. Experiment complete. Try Grindr?
1. start with porn.
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